Dealing with their tantrums on the other hand is a whole different ballgame. I am so tired of telling Ella repeatedly to do something or stop doing something and she COMPLETELY ignores me. As soon as I scream at her, she does it. I hate screaming at her but it is literally the ONLY way to get her to listen. I go hoarse by the end of the day with as many times as I have to do this! I pray that I am in the same boat with many other parents and that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Ava did not go through this phase so I don't know how it shapes up throughout the year! Ava's new thing is to tell me I hurt her feelings if I don't let her do something that she really wants to do or something like that. Ava's biggest thing that aggravates me is her mouth. She is extremely cocky and sarcastic. I swear she is nearly four going on fourteen. Lord help me when she IS fourteen!
The other day we did some outside Easter pictures and I was way more pleased with these as compared to the ones I did in their room a few weeks ago. Ava was a ham as usual while Ella got a little bored after a while. Then when we went out to a barbeque barn that evening we found several spots that were perfect for pictures, I just wish the kids had been just as enthusiastic about it! Glad they were all good sports about it and at least sat still!
Overall, we are doing a little better with Brian being gone. It still bites that he isn't here all the time but it does make our time together that one weekend a month that much better. We try to spend all the time we can together while also seeing other people I know he wants to see. Next week I am flying up for our 5th anniversary, we are going to a Phillies/Braves game Friday night in Philly and then on to NYC early Saturday morning where we will hang out there all day Saturday, go to a nice restaurant that night and stay at the Waldorf Astoria! I am so excited. We haven't had a weekend just the two of us in almost two years (that I can remember anyway).
Ava and Ella in a rare sweet moment lol.
My Ella Bella Bear- 2 1/2
My Gracie Lou- 3 1/2
I can't believe she will be 4 in a month!
Such beautiful little ladies!
Two months from now she will be 3!
LOVE LOVE LOVE this picture!
Such little hams!
Christian was cracking me up. He would not give us a real smile for anything!
LOVE the pictures! So glad you guys are doing well :) :)
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