I meant to post this the other night but time got away from me as it usually does. So life in the past year has been extremely busy and crazy. We have had a diagnosis of cancer, fought it, beat it, learned we were adding to our family, gotten closer to some people and more distanced from others.
I have struggled with a lot of what-ifs in the past few months and I try every day to get past them. When we found out about Ivy's stuff I was certain I was done having children. This scared the daylights out of me and I didn't want to have another child and possibly end up with worse things going on, shallow thinking I know, but it happened anyway. When we got through all of her stuff so easily I breathed a sigh of relief. I began rethinking that last child and apparently so did Brian. I figured he would shut me down in an instant but surprised me. Little did we know we would get pregnant so easily with this little guy.
After I found out I was pregnant I went back to worrying. Ivy's pregnancy was not easy by any means but that would not be an indicator for what she had. I just happened to have a rough pregnancy. Nausea, severe heartburn, bad gestational diabetes, extreme exhaustion...not fun at all. I wasn't necessasrily worried about all of this though. I figured it would be worth it to add to our family one final time.
What I worry about, is that there were no indications that anything was wrong. No ultrasounds picked it up, no blood work, nothing. Hers was miniscule compared to most with sacrococcygeal teratomas. But it didn't make it any easier. I constantly worry, what if Owen has this when he is born, what if something else is going on that has gone undetected, what if Ivy has a relapse while I'm pregnant or right after Owen is born? The list goes on but these are the main things that run through my mind.
I freak if I don't feel him move for long periods of time as he is an active little booger. I relax when I feel him wiggle all around again. I try to push all the what-ifs out of my mind and enjoy my last pregnancy but some days it isn't so easy. So if I seem quiet or off, you'll know I'm having one of those days. Or if I'm overly upbeat lol. Sometimes I like to compensate and make it seem like everything is perfectly fine and it really isn't. I don't normally complain on here but sometimes we all just need to vent!
Sisters Forever
Monday, June 2, 2014
Thursday, May 29, 2014
I really should do this more often...
I decided to look through my old posts tonight. I was horrified to see that my last one was on May 6th of last year. That was mine and Brian's 7th wedding anniversary lol. That wasn't why I was horrified. I scrolled through that post and realized I stated that Ivy could have faced chemo if her tumors had not been caught when they were. I guess we got too comfortable with the diagnosis of unlikely to return.
It is crazy to realize that just a year and 23 days ago we figured the hard part was behind us. We were wrong and I can't say that I would change it. Don't take that wrong. Did I want my 6 month old to have cancer and go through chemo? No, absolutely not. Did I want to sacrifice time with my family so that I could spend a ton of time at doctors offices and the hospital? Definitely not. But so many things happened in that time. We were changed, as individuals and as a family due to this experience. We learned to rely on others for help, especially our church family and a few close friends and relatives. We learned to focus on our family and our sweet girl's specific needs. Her older sisters became fiercely protective of her and are still rather close to her now. We became stronger in our faith. Yes, we did go through a rough experience, but it was nothing compared to what other families go through. We watched parents wrought with fear listen to doctors (no we didn't eavesdrop, we were perusing the halls and almost everyone kept doors open) tell them what the next step would be, if there was a next step. We learned of the passing of one of the patients up there, I took that one rather hard. I know the nurses had a really hard time with that one as well. I learned that while we were having a scary experience with our own child, it could have been much worse.
Ivy took everything like a champ. She rarely cried during the whole thing. She didn't even cry each time they accessed her port, even though I was ready to each time! She smiled constantly and was a little ball of energy. The nurses all adored her and would often steal her to take her on walks or over to the playroom. The staff at Levine and at Ivy's oncology office were/are one word: AMAZING!!! We could not have had a better experience.
When I sat down tonight I actually had no intention on going into detail on what we went through with Ivy. Most people who read this also keep up with her page and updates. It has been crazy around here so I haven't updated that page as much as I should. I'm going to sum up the year as quickly as I can and then maybe tomorrow I can get back to what I was originally going to write about!
So in the past year:
May was pretty uneventful. June: I could tell that Ivy was getting a little fussier but figured it was teething, she had a couple working their way in. July: I knew something wasn't right but I was determined it was nothing. August: We had her three month post-op ultrasound. It showed something abnormal so we went in for an MRI. The tumors were back but this time as one tumor, not several clustered together. But it was still in the same spot as the original ones. Chemo was suggested. September: We started chemo. Round one was three days but we were at the hospital for five days. Day one was port placement, day two was more tests and then started chemo that night. Day three and four was more chemo and day five we went home. We had round two in September as well, this one also caused her to need a blood transfusion. October: We had Ivy's last round of chemo. November: She was cancer-free! December: Next MRI and hearing test. All still looked good so the doctor and nurses celebrated and got Ivy a little gift! January: We found out we were going to have another baby (yes he was planned!). Ivy turned one! February: Next MRI, still clear!!! March: All blood work looks great, decide to schedule her next MRI four months out instead of three (would have happened in April instead of May). Two weeks of sickness, mainly in Ivy. April: We found out we are having a boy (more on that tomorrow). Blood work still looks fantastic. We have a whole month of sickness. We visited family in Florida! May: Next MRI and hearing test. STILL CLEAR!!! So now she is technically 6 months cancer free. WOOHOO!!!! She will go for blood work in July and then her next MRI in September (not long after Owen gets here). Sad that this is a brief summary lol.
It is crazy to realize that just a year and 23 days ago we figured the hard part was behind us. We were wrong and I can't say that I would change it. Don't take that wrong. Did I want my 6 month old to have cancer and go through chemo? No, absolutely not. Did I want to sacrifice time with my family so that I could spend a ton of time at doctors offices and the hospital? Definitely not. But so many things happened in that time. We were changed, as individuals and as a family due to this experience. We learned to rely on others for help, especially our church family and a few close friends and relatives. We learned to focus on our family and our sweet girl's specific needs. Her older sisters became fiercely protective of her and are still rather close to her now. We became stronger in our faith. Yes, we did go through a rough experience, but it was nothing compared to what other families go through. We watched parents wrought with fear listen to doctors (no we didn't eavesdrop, we were perusing the halls and almost everyone kept doors open) tell them what the next step would be, if there was a next step. We learned of the passing of one of the patients up there, I took that one rather hard. I know the nurses had a really hard time with that one as well. I learned that while we were having a scary experience with our own child, it could have been much worse.
Ivy took everything like a champ. She rarely cried during the whole thing. She didn't even cry each time they accessed her port, even though I was ready to each time! She smiled constantly and was a little ball of energy. The nurses all adored her and would often steal her to take her on walks or over to the playroom. The staff at Levine and at Ivy's oncology office were/are one word: AMAZING!!! We could not have had a better experience.
When I sat down tonight I actually had no intention on going into detail on what we went through with Ivy. Most people who read this also keep up with her page and updates. It has been crazy around here so I haven't updated that page as much as I should. I'm going to sum up the year as quickly as I can and then maybe tomorrow I can get back to what I was originally going to write about!
So in the past year:
May was pretty uneventful. June: I could tell that Ivy was getting a little fussier but figured it was teething, she had a couple working their way in. July: I knew something wasn't right but I was determined it was nothing. August: We had her three month post-op ultrasound. It showed something abnormal so we went in for an MRI. The tumors were back but this time as one tumor, not several clustered together. But it was still in the same spot as the original ones. Chemo was suggested. September: We started chemo. Round one was three days but we were at the hospital for five days. Day one was port placement, day two was more tests and then started chemo that night. Day three and four was more chemo and day five we went home. We had round two in September as well, this one also caused her to need a blood transfusion. October: We had Ivy's last round of chemo. November: She was cancer-free! December: Next MRI and hearing test. All still looked good so the doctor and nurses celebrated and got Ivy a little gift! January: We found out we were going to have another baby (yes he was planned!). Ivy turned one! February: Next MRI, still clear!!! March: All blood work looks great, decide to schedule her next MRI four months out instead of three (would have happened in April instead of May). Two weeks of sickness, mainly in Ivy. April: We found out we are having a boy (more on that tomorrow). Blood work still looks fantastic. We have a whole month of sickness. We visited family in Florida! May: Next MRI and hearing test. STILL CLEAR!!! So now she is technically 6 months cancer free. WOOHOO!!!! She will go for blood work in July and then her next MRI in September (not long after Owen gets here). Sad that this is a brief summary lol.
Monday, May 6, 2013
Many Blessings
As some of you know so many things had to happen in order for Brian and I to meet. I had been looking at colleges out of state and decided to stay in-state due to the cost of tuition. I went to work at the Factory right out of high school and met Jen a couple years later. She was dating Brian's brother Mike and we were all going to college together. I had told her that if she ever needed a ride to see Mike in Dallas (NC not Texas!) over the summer break that I would take her. Lo and behold, not a week later Brian wrecked his motorcycle and I drove her over there. Her poor car wouldn't make it...we used to call it the Singer because it sounded like an out of whack sewing machine! This was the first time Brian and I met. We got along great. Only problem was, he was engaged to someone else at the time. Brian knew he was in the wrong relationship before we even met but didn't know how to get out. I gave him two weeks (We talked in that two weeks but that was it.), after that I wasn't waiting. If he wasn't going to leave her in that two weeks then we didn't need to be together. Two weeks to the day he broke it off. Four months after we started dating we were engaged, six months later we were married, four months later we were pregnant with Ava. Yeah, we've been told we were moving too fast. Honestly, I wouldn't have it any other way. We have had a lot of things go wrong over the years but never our relationship. We laugh, cry, work through problems and get along better than a lot of couples I know. In a three year time span we started dating, got married, and had two of our three daughters.
Ava and Ella had been the picture of perfect health from birth. Ava's biggest illness didn't come until she was almost three and they thought she was going into kidney failure. Turned out it was a combination of many things and her kidneys have functioned fine since. We have to watch her sugar intake and dairy intake from time to time but I'll take it! Ella's biggest illness was at three months old when she had whooping cough. For six months we got to hear that horrible cough and she had to sleep elevated. We went through three swings in that time and had quite a time getting her transitioned back to her crib at nine months old.
Then came Ivy lol. This little one was our troublemaker from the beginning! I was sick the entire pregnancy, had heart burn the whole time, and had gestational diabetes quite a bit worse than with Ella. All of her ultrasounds looked normal. Then her birth...well that took quite a bit longer than any of us thought but I won't complain, I went through much longer with Ava!
My sister found the lump on Ivy's backside first. Then she pointed it out to the nurses and suddenly we had doctors and nurses gathering around whispering and looking her over. Talk about scary. I was freaking out and going through shock from my epidural, no fun at all there. We were told that it was just a fluid filled sac and she should be seen by a neuro surgeon as soon as possible. A week and a half or so later we saw the neuro surgeon for a whopping 5 minutes. He took one look at it, said she needed an MRI at 6 months old and wouldn't answer any questions until then. He swore he had seen so many cysts like this and removed them all the time and it doesn't bother her. BALONEY!!!! My child screamed every time we changed a poopy diaper and any time she was in her swing, bouncy seat or car seat. She always slept on her side because sleeping on her back put too much pressure on her backside.
At her two month visit her pediatrician did not like how it looked, feeling it was becoming abscessed. So he had me take her to the Levine Children's Hospital ER immediately. I quickly picked up my other two, called my mom hysterical, and let Brian know he needed to come home (he was in Michigan). Five doctors later we see a doctor from the neuro surgeons office. She told me that there was nothing wrong and she could have an MRI the next week if I was that concerned about it. I insisted we do it right then, and for those of you who know me, I do not do confrontation well. I normally let things slide. But this time I felt that my pediatrician was on to something.
Long story short, I'm glad I insisted. It turns out she had not just the cyst on the outside but what they thought was a plum sized one on the inside pressing on her colon. It was actually several smaller ones on the inside. And then we found out that she has Sacrococcygeal Teratoma, which is a form of cancer. Thank the Lord we caught it in time, the one tumor that was malignant had the markings in the middle so they were able to get it all and only left a few "germ cells", as they called them, behind. Essentially that means that it could come back, but for now we are just closely monitoring her and she will only have to do chemotherapy if the tumors return. When I think back to the other neuro surgeon we saw at the ER I want to scream. What if I had waited until she was 6 months old like originally planned? What if I had not insisted on the MRI then? What if we had not had such a great pediatric surgeon who would not let us leave the hospital until he knew what was going on for sure and could give us an answer? God has been so good to us. If He had not been there with me to stand my ground then Ivy could have been facing chemotherapy at 6 or 7 months old when they decided to extract the tumors. That makes me sick to even think about! And I just want to give a big thank you to everyone who shared our statuses and prayed for us as we went through all of this. Ivy is a much happier baby now and hardly ever cries in her car seat anymore. I feel like the worst is now behind us!
Ava and Ella had been the picture of perfect health from birth. Ava's biggest illness didn't come until she was almost three and they thought she was going into kidney failure. Turned out it was a combination of many things and her kidneys have functioned fine since. We have to watch her sugar intake and dairy intake from time to time but I'll take it! Ella's biggest illness was at three months old when she had whooping cough. For six months we got to hear that horrible cough and she had to sleep elevated. We went through three swings in that time and had quite a time getting her transitioned back to her crib at nine months old.
Then came Ivy lol. This little one was our troublemaker from the beginning! I was sick the entire pregnancy, had heart burn the whole time, and had gestational diabetes quite a bit worse than with Ella. All of her ultrasounds looked normal. Then her birth...well that took quite a bit longer than any of us thought but I won't complain, I went through much longer with Ava!
My sister found the lump on Ivy's backside first. Then she pointed it out to the nurses and suddenly we had doctors and nurses gathering around whispering and looking her over. Talk about scary. I was freaking out and going through shock from my epidural, no fun at all there. We were told that it was just a fluid filled sac and she should be seen by a neuro surgeon as soon as possible. A week and a half or so later we saw the neuro surgeon for a whopping 5 minutes. He took one look at it, said she needed an MRI at 6 months old and wouldn't answer any questions until then. He swore he had seen so many cysts like this and removed them all the time and it doesn't bother her. BALONEY!!!! My child screamed every time we changed a poopy diaper and any time she was in her swing, bouncy seat or car seat. She always slept on her side because sleeping on her back put too much pressure on her backside.
At her two month visit her pediatrician did not like how it looked, feeling it was becoming abscessed. So he had me take her to the Levine Children's Hospital ER immediately. I quickly picked up my other two, called my mom hysterical, and let Brian know he needed to come home (he was in Michigan). Five doctors later we see a doctor from the neuro surgeons office. She told me that there was nothing wrong and she could have an MRI the next week if I was that concerned about it. I insisted we do it right then, and for those of you who know me, I do not do confrontation well. I normally let things slide. But this time I felt that my pediatrician was on to something.
Long story short, I'm glad I insisted. It turns out she had not just the cyst on the outside but what they thought was a plum sized one on the inside pressing on her colon. It was actually several smaller ones on the inside. And then we found out that she has Sacrococcygeal Teratoma, which is a form of cancer. Thank the Lord we caught it in time, the one tumor that was malignant had the markings in the middle so they were able to get it all and only left a few "germ cells", as they called them, behind. Essentially that means that it could come back, but for now we are just closely monitoring her and she will only have to do chemotherapy if the tumors return. When I think back to the other neuro surgeon we saw at the ER I want to scream. What if I had waited until she was 6 months old like originally planned? What if I had not insisted on the MRI then? What if we had not had such a great pediatric surgeon who would not let us leave the hospital until he knew what was going on for sure and could give us an answer? God has been so good to us. If He had not been there with me to stand my ground then Ivy could have been facing chemotherapy at 6 or 7 months old when they decided to extract the tumors. That makes me sick to even think about! And I just want to give a big thank you to everyone who shared our statuses and prayed for us as we went through all of this. Ivy is a much happier baby now and hardly ever cries in her car seat anymore. I feel like the worst is now behind us!
Wednesday, October 3, 2012
Oh baby!
So as I sit to write this our newest addition is kicking the end of the laptop. She does not appreciate anything being remotely close to my stomach aside from clothing. And for those of you who missed it, yes I said she! Lord help Brian he is even more so outnumbered now! Miss Ivy Paige Riddle should be here in roughly 17 1/2 weeks and I am ready lol.
I remember when we were trying to get pregnant I told Brian that I really wanted a pregnancy I could enjoy, one that I could remember most of the details, that sort of thing. Boy did I stick my foot in it. With Ava I was very energetic, got sick one time, went to school full-time, worked full-time and had energy to spare...the whole pregnancy. With Ella I was pretty much the same way just add in a baby already at home. This time around, I have been sick the whole time, I have zero energy and I am moody all the time. I am just ready to be done at this point! This is the last pregnancy for me, my OCD can get over the odd number!
I have found that Ivy has a bit of her sisters in her already which makes me laugh. She is very active just like Ava always was. However, she hates noise just as Ella always did. She can move around all day long and be happy, until someone comes up to my stomach and starts talking right where she is or puts music on my belly. She does not appreciate either. She will stop whatever she was doing and just sit there. As soon as the person or music moves, she will move all over again. It is interesting to see bits of the girls personalities in her already, before she is even born. Brian really is in for it!
Going into the ultrasound nearly two weeks ago to find out what we were having was exciting and nerve wracking. First of all, we have tried to involve the girls as much as possible in this pregnancy so we let them come to the ultrasound. I'm pretty sure the technician has an appointment next week to get her tubes tied (she currently only has one child). Ella was concerned about the head size, but seeing as she was watching the ultrasound on a big screen tv, the baby's head looked ginormous! Ava switched back and forth from asking every question under the sun to asking me if I was doing okay. The night before the ultrasound I finally had what you would call a mother's intuition as to the gender of the baby. I had never had that with the girls. But I told Brian that I was almost 100% definite that we were having another girl, he felt the same way. So when the image went to between Ivy's legs we knew. Of course Ivy was very proud of her girl parts, which I will say differs from her sisters. With Ava, they were only 96% sure she was a girl in the first ultrasound we had to find out the gender, it was later confirmed 100% at the 3D ultrasound. With Ella, we spent 45 minutes trying to get her to uncross her legs. I ended up having to sit with my legs "criss-cross applesauce" as the girls call it and drink a few sips of Coke. That helped, we went back in and found out immediately she was a girl. Ivy, on the other hand, let us know as soon as the technician got to that part of the ultrasound.
I think I was more nervous about having a boy than another girl. I know my girls. We have all girl stuff in our house. There is pink and purple stuff everywhere! So when we found out it was another girl I think we were both sighing in relief, even though I know Brian kind of wanted a little boy. Ava was happy, even though she really wanted a brother and Ella was ecstatic. She has wanted another sister all along. I love the people who tell us that we need to try one more time for a boy. I'm sorry but if we have had girls the past three times, what makes you think number four will come out any different? Ha! We will stick with three thank you! We will leave the task of boys to Brian's siblings and my sister (much later in life for my sister lol).
I remember when we were trying to get pregnant I told Brian that I really wanted a pregnancy I could enjoy, one that I could remember most of the details, that sort of thing. Boy did I stick my foot in it. With Ava I was very energetic, got sick one time, went to school full-time, worked full-time and had energy to spare...the whole pregnancy. With Ella I was pretty much the same way just add in a baby already at home. This time around, I have been sick the whole time, I have zero energy and I am moody all the time. I am just ready to be done at this point! This is the last pregnancy for me, my OCD can get over the odd number!
I have found that Ivy has a bit of her sisters in her already which makes me laugh. She is very active just like Ava always was. However, she hates noise just as Ella always did. She can move around all day long and be happy, until someone comes up to my stomach and starts talking right where she is or puts music on my belly. She does not appreciate either. She will stop whatever she was doing and just sit there. As soon as the person or music moves, she will move all over again. It is interesting to see bits of the girls personalities in her already, before she is even born. Brian really is in for it!
Going into the ultrasound nearly two weeks ago to find out what we were having was exciting and nerve wracking. First of all, we have tried to involve the girls as much as possible in this pregnancy so we let them come to the ultrasound. I'm pretty sure the technician has an appointment next week to get her tubes tied (she currently only has one child). Ella was concerned about the head size, but seeing as she was watching the ultrasound on a big screen tv, the baby's head looked ginormous! Ava switched back and forth from asking every question under the sun to asking me if I was doing okay. The night before the ultrasound I finally had what you would call a mother's intuition as to the gender of the baby. I had never had that with the girls. But I told Brian that I was almost 100% definite that we were having another girl, he felt the same way. So when the image went to between Ivy's legs we knew. Of course Ivy was very proud of her girl parts, which I will say differs from her sisters. With Ava, they were only 96% sure she was a girl in the first ultrasound we had to find out the gender, it was later confirmed 100% at the 3D ultrasound. With Ella, we spent 45 minutes trying to get her to uncross her legs. I ended up having to sit with my legs "criss-cross applesauce" as the girls call it and drink a few sips of Coke. That helped, we went back in and found out immediately she was a girl. Ivy, on the other hand, let us know as soon as the technician got to that part of the ultrasound.
I think I was more nervous about having a boy than another girl. I know my girls. We have all girl stuff in our house. There is pink and purple stuff everywhere! So when we found out it was another girl I think we were both sighing in relief, even though I know Brian kind of wanted a little boy. Ava was happy, even though she really wanted a brother and Ella was ecstatic. She has wanted another sister all along. I love the people who tell us that we need to try one more time for a boy. I'm sorry but if we have had girls the past three times, what makes you think number four will come out any different? Ha! We will stick with three thank you! We will leave the task of boys to Brian's siblings and my sister (much later in life for my sister lol).
Tuesday, September 18, 2012
Naming Baby
With the third baby on the way we have had a very hard time coming up with a name we both like. I will like one name and Brian will like another but of course they don't go together so we can't compromise there either! It wasn't always this difficult lol. With Ava, she was always Ava Grace. I had loved the name Grace since before Brian and I met. I always wanted to name a daughter Grace. When my cousin Chrissi was pregnant with her last child she threw out the name Ava Grace to her husband. I realized I loved the name Ava and it went great with Grace! I was secretly doing the happy dance when he shot the name down. So when they had their little girl and named her something completely different I knew Ava Grace was fair game! By this time Brian and I were dating and had talked about our future and kids and such. I told him I liked the name Ava Grace and he was completely on board. We also loved the name Connor, the middle name was up for debate though. So when we found out we were pregnant the first time and then found out the baby was a girl we automatically knew her name would be Ava Grace. And no other name would suit that child.
Ella, on the other hand, proved to be a bit more difficult. Once again we stuck with Connor if the baby was a boy but for a girl we had actually picked out Chloe Faith. I had always liked Chloe and Faith was a double meaning. Our goddaughter's name is Faith so we were wanting to use it for that reason as well as the fact that Ava's middle name was Grace so it went well together. We got halfway through the pregnancy when Brian realized he didn't care for Chloe Faith. So while watching Ella Enchanted (silly movie but still cute) we both came to the conclusion that Ella would be great! So she was Ella Faith, for a couple of days. That was when people started calling to ask us if we realized we were naming our child Elephant. Well dangit we didn't think of it and now I was flustered. So then we changed the middle name to Paige, until we thought about the meaning of her name and didn't care for it. So somehow we came up with Kate and it stuck. And yet again, no other name would suit that child.
Now, here we are just three days away from finding out what this little one is going to be and once again we can't agree on a name! I love Mia Paige. It is very feminine, flows with the girls names, etc. Brian, on the other hand, likes Liberty Paige (I hate this one by the way). So we did a poll on Facebook, something we swore we would never do lol. And so far I am winning that battle. And for a boy, Ava wants Connor William, which is not a bad name at all. It is just really long unlike the girls names. We like Ian Conor as well. The first name starts with a vowel and is short like the girls names. So far I think that one is tied or close to it with Connor William on the poll.
We will find out on Friday what we are having and I have to say, I can't wait to call this baby something other than "baby," "it," or my personal favorite, "Para." Yes there is meaning behind the name Para. When I was going through my first trimester I was sick as a dog, constantly. So I took to calling the baby (affectionately) my little Para Site. Yes, I spelled it that way on purpose. Both of our girls' first names end in an "a", both their middle names end in an "e", and their first and middle names together equals 8 letters. No, we didn't realize this when we were choosing Ella's name, that was a fluke. But now we are trying to do something similar which is where Mia Paige completely works, and was once again a fluke. I happened to love Mia and Brian really liked Paige. They flow together well and comes out like the girls names. And so does Para Site lol, which is why it is spelled as it is. But don't worry, this child will not be named Para Site as a real name!
Now can you see why we have resorted to the name poll online? Haha! Most people don't get so technical when it comes to their children's names and I know it is dorky, but it is who I am!
Ella, on the other hand, proved to be a bit more difficult. Once again we stuck with Connor if the baby was a boy but for a girl we had actually picked out Chloe Faith. I had always liked Chloe and Faith was a double meaning. Our goddaughter's name is Faith so we were wanting to use it for that reason as well as the fact that Ava's middle name was Grace so it went well together. We got halfway through the pregnancy when Brian realized he didn't care for Chloe Faith. So while watching Ella Enchanted (silly movie but still cute) we both came to the conclusion that Ella would be great! So she was Ella Faith, for a couple of days. That was when people started calling to ask us if we realized we were naming our child Elephant. Well dangit we didn't think of it and now I was flustered. So then we changed the middle name to Paige, until we thought about the meaning of her name and didn't care for it. So somehow we came up with Kate and it stuck. And yet again, no other name would suit that child.
Now, here we are just three days away from finding out what this little one is going to be and once again we can't agree on a name! I love Mia Paige. It is very feminine, flows with the girls names, etc. Brian, on the other hand, likes Liberty Paige (I hate this one by the way). So we did a poll on Facebook, something we swore we would never do lol. And so far I am winning that battle. And for a boy, Ava wants Connor William, which is not a bad name at all. It is just really long unlike the girls names. We like Ian Conor as well. The first name starts with a vowel and is short like the girls names. So far I think that one is tied or close to it with Connor William on the poll.
We will find out on Friday what we are having and I have to say, I can't wait to call this baby something other than "baby," "it," or my personal favorite, "Para." Yes there is meaning behind the name Para. When I was going through my first trimester I was sick as a dog, constantly. So I took to calling the baby (affectionately) my little Para Site. Yes, I spelled it that way on purpose. Both of our girls' first names end in an "a", both their middle names end in an "e", and their first and middle names together equals 8 letters. No, we didn't realize this when we were choosing Ella's name, that was a fluke. But now we are trying to do something similar which is where Mia Paige completely works, and was once again a fluke. I happened to love Mia and Brian really liked Paige. They flow together well and comes out like the girls names. And so does Para Site lol, which is why it is spelled as it is. But don't worry, this child will not be named Para Site as a real name!
Now can you see why we have resorted to the name poll online? Haha! Most people don't get so technical when it comes to their children's names and I know it is dorky, but it is who I am!
Thursday, July 12, 2012
So Much Has Happened...
Okay so I know that everyone has figured out by now that we are expecting another baby come February of 2013. Only about five people actually knew we were trying. It was something we were keeping to ourselves and we liked it that way. We actually kept the pregnancy itself a secret for a couple of weeks as well. This adventure is terrifying but exciting all at the same time. We haven't had a baby (to stay more than a night) in our house in four years! We got rid of all our baby stuff except a crib, mattress, the sheets (since the girls used toddler beds for years), and sippy cups. As far as I knew, we were done. Brian was dead set against having anymore children and so I had resigned myself to that fact. I got rid of all the baby stuff to get out any reminders. As a matter of fact, up until about 5 months ago the crib was being used by my brother-in-law so it wasn't even in the house.
Over the years I bugged Brian about having more children. I wanted two more. I like round numbers and had loved the idea of four children. Brian was done, children are expensive and Ella was a rough baby. We were spoiled with Ava, she was the poster child for your first baby. She was quiet, laid back, didn't want to be held all the time. Ella was the complete opposite (and still is). I started asking him about more kids when Ella was almost two. Of course I got a very resounding no on that one! I would give up for a while and say that I didn't want anymore either. It was upsetting but I was trying hard to convince myself so I wouldn't get depressed about the idea of no more children.
I gave up the fight for a few months, especially while Brian was in New Jersey. No point in arguing about something you can't even achieve considering your significant other is a few hundred miles away! But after he came home last November I was feeling the baby bug in a bad way. It didn't help that several of my friends were finding out they were pregnant around this time.
Brian has always said that when we are in a difficult situation that we always manage to make our way through it. I finally asked him while we were in Franklin in November why he thought we couldn't make another baby work for our family. If we can get through other situations, why not one that will bring happiness? He didn't have a good answer. He finally bargained with me that we could think about one more, but only one more. I figured I'd wear him down later and get that last one that I wanted. I let it go for a while and then near the end of December I brought it up and gave it up just as quick when he said he didn't want anymore yet. Then suddenly in January of this year he floored me. He decided he wanted another baby. I didn't believe him. I told him that he didn't need to say that just to make me happy. I didn't want him to resent me or the baby later on because he didn't really want this. It took him a couple weeks to convince me before I agreed to start trying. Throughout that process I was still apprehensive that he had given in for all the wrong reasons. It was when we found out we were pregnant on June 1st that I realized he was truly excited. He beamed from ear to ear when I told him the test was positive and he wanted to call people right away. I was a little more terrified haha. My mind went to "Oh lordy we really are going to do this again."
I will say that Brian is getting his way as far as only one more child goes. I have been so sick this time around that I refuse to do a pregnancy again. If we decide to add to our family later, we will adopt! For now, I am trying to enjoy my pregnancy, even with the all day sickness that this one has rained down upon me. I am crossing my fingers that that goes away in the next couple weeks as we hit the second trimester! Sorry this was so long...had to get all of that out!
Over the years I bugged Brian about having more children. I wanted two more. I like round numbers and had loved the idea of four children. Brian was done, children are expensive and Ella was a rough baby. We were spoiled with Ava, she was the poster child for your first baby. She was quiet, laid back, didn't want to be held all the time. Ella was the complete opposite (and still is). I started asking him about more kids when Ella was almost two. Of course I got a very resounding no on that one! I would give up for a while and say that I didn't want anymore either. It was upsetting but I was trying hard to convince myself so I wouldn't get depressed about the idea of no more children.
I gave up the fight for a few months, especially while Brian was in New Jersey. No point in arguing about something you can't even achieve considering your significant other is a few hundred miles away! But after he came home last November I was feeling the baby bug in a bad way. It didn't help that several of my friends were finding out they were pregnant around this time.
Brian has always said that when we are in a difficult situation that we always manage to make our way through it. I finally asked him while we were in Franklin in November why he thought we couldn't make another baby work for our family. If we can get through other situations, why not one that will bring happiness? He didn't have a good answer. He finally bargained with me that we could think about one more, but only one more. I figured I'd wear him down later and get that last one that I wanted. I let it go for a while and then near the end of December I brought it up and gave it up just as quick when he said he didn't want anymore yet. Then suddenly in January of this year he floored me. He decided he wanted another baby. I didn't believe him. I told him that he didn't need to say that just to make me happy. I didn't want him to resent me or the baby later on because he didn't really want this. It took him a couple weeks to convince me before I agreed to start trying. Throughout that process I was still apprehensive that he had given in for all the wrong reasons. It was when we found out we were pregnant on June 1st that I realized he was truly excited. He beamed from ear to ear when I told him the test was positive and he wanted to call people right away. I was a little more terrified haha. My mind went to "Oh lordy we really are going to do this again."
I will say that Brian is getting his way as far as only one more child goes. I have been so sick this time around that I refuse to do a pregnancy again. If we decide to add to our family later, we will adopt! For now, I am trying to enjoy my pregnancy, even with the all day sickness that this one has rained down upon me. I am crossing my fingers that that goes away in the next couple weeks as we hit the second trimester! Sorry this was so long...had to get all of that out!
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
Catching Up!
Okay I have figured out that I am horrible at this whole blogging thing! I haven't been on here in quite some time. Not a whole lot has gone on since October besides that the girls got sick again and then got sick AGAIN. Late Fall/Early Winter is evil in our house. Ava loves school but at the same time she acts like when she gets home she can't get enough of workbook pages. She absolutely loves doing them! Ella likes doing them so long as Ava is but otherwise couldn't seem to care less.
In the time since I have been on here my best friend has found out that she is having a girl and I am so excited for her! She has wanted a little girl for as long as I can remember...and for those of you who know me well know that I can remember a lot things. I got to go to Bree's ultrasound that day, I haven't been to someone else's ultrasound before, it was kind of neat to see everything in her eyes. The day was bitter sweet as we got home that morning to my mother calling to say my Grandmother had passed away. It had been a long time coming and wasn't that much of a surprise but it was still upsetting all the same. I was glad that I got to say goodbye but I hated seeing her as she was.
Also, Brian's job has gotten a whole lot better as well. Now he is home every single weekend and is only gone every other week from late Sunday afternoon to late Friday afternoon. I can handle 10 days away per month rather than 28! I love that he is home every weekend. I still catch myself checkin the calendar to see if he will be in that weekend. It is sad I know but it is what we got used to. I have to say that if I didn't have such an independent streak this past year would have been horrible.
Now there are a lot of things going on around me that I don't totally agree with and some are really upsetting me but I have to say that I am not going to let it get in the way of me living my life with my family to the fullest extent.
Oh yeah and did I mention I feel old? My ten year reunion is coming up and kids I used to babysit are entering high school and college. Yep...definitely starting to feel old. I did like that a staff member at the high school thought I was a student here recently. That made me feel good, at least until someone pointed out that I was no longer a student and hadn't been in quite some time. Thanks, I appreciate that lol.
Here's to a great year ahead of us!
In the time since I have been on here my best friend has found out that she is having a girl and I am so excited for her! She has wanted a little girl for as long as I can remember...and for those of you who know me well know that I can remember a lot things. I got to go to Bree's ultrasound that day, I haven't been to someone else's ultrasound before, it was kind of neat to see everything in her eyes. The day was bitter sweet as we got home that morning to my mother calling to say my Grandmother had passed away. It had been a long time coming and wasn't that much of a surprise but it was still upsetting all the same. I was glad that I got to say goodbye but I hated seeing her as she was.
Also, Brian's job has gotten a whole lot better as well. Now he is home every single weekend and is only gone every other week from late Sunday afternoon to late Friday afternoon. I can handle 10 days away per month rather than 28! I love that he is home every weekend. I still catch myself checkin the calendar to see if he will be in that weekend. It is sad I know but it is what we got used to. I have to say that if I didn't have such an independent streak this past year would have been horrible.
Now there are a lot of things going on around me that I don't totally agree with and some are really upsetting me but I have to say that I am not going to let it get in the way of me living my life with my family to the fullest extent.
Oh yeah and did I mention I feel old? My ten year reunion is coming up and kids I used to babysit are entering high school and college. Yep...definitely starting to feel old. I did like that a staff member at the high school thought I was a student here recently. That made me feel good, at least until someone pointed out that I was no longer a student and hadn't been in quite some time. Thanks, I appreciate that lol.
Here's to a great year ahead of us!
Friday, October 21, 2011
Family Time
I have to say that the 10 days that we spent with Brian here recently were by far the best we have had so far. Brian came home earlier than we all expected that Thursday and surprised Ava at school. It took her a minute to realize who was standing there since she thought he wasn't coming home until the following night. But as soon as it registered she jumped in his arms and wouldn't let go. Ella was happy to see him too but Ava's reaction was priceless. We spent the next couple of days just the four of us and loved it. We played catch up lol. Brian was amazed at all the differences in the girls. He did get to talk and see them on the computer every day while he was gone but it just isn't the same. The zoo was a lot of fun. I think my favorite moment was when we were at the gorilla exhibit and the girls scooted their way to the front so their faces were pressed to the glass. One of the gorillas came sauntering over and sat right in front of Ella and was just staring at her as she talked to him (or her) and waved at him. He seemed perfectly content to just sit there and so did Ella. She LOVES monkeys, gorillas, any animals like that. In fact, her first zoo trip when she was 8 months old she chose a stuffed gorilla to take home and has slept with it ever since. Two-thirds of her stuffed animals on her bed are monkeys. Ava was in awe of the elephants and the giraffes. She had been asking to see them all day and then we were able to see them pretty close up so she was ecstatic.
While at the zoo Brian and I changed our plans from going to Pigeon Forge and Dollywood to surprising the girls with a trip to Disney. They had mentioned it several times in the past few months so we figured it would be fun. It was an absolute BLAST!!! We had so much fun but at the same time so exhausting! The drive down wasn't horrible so that was a plus. Ella is notorious for being a horrible traveller but she did amazing. Ava has always been a great traveller and of course did a great job. We stayed at the Nickelodeon Resort and we were impressed. The reservations desk staff and the guest services staff were not the greatest and they did not get us into our room until a bit after the normal check-in time. However, what impressed us were the grounds, eating area, water park, room and general area staff. Anyone we encountered, even just walking by would stop and say hello and ask how our stay was and seemed to genuinely care. I think our favorite part was the water park though and the fact that the weather cooperated and we were able to even go swimming at 8:00 at night in the middle of October! The girls thought that was great and wanted to go swimming when we got home (it was barely 68 when we got back here!).
Disney World was the absolute greatest part of our trip. We decided to take the girls two days so we wouldn't have to rush to do things and meet characters. The girls met lots of characters, saw several parades, two shows and some fireworks. They loved the ferry ride over, although Ava was convinced we were riding one of Tinker Bell's friends over until I showed her the boat and explained the difference in spelling and such.
If you ask the girls they would probably say their favorite character they met was Prince Naveen or Rapunzel. If you asked Brian and I we'd have to say Prince Naveen and Peter Pan, although Prince Eric and Ariel were pretty great as well. What made these particular characters the best? Well first of all, Prince Naveen took several minutes with the girls, got down on their level and really talked to them. Then he took them by the hand and danced with them. He made them laugh repeatedly and they loved him! Peter Pan, Disney couldn't have found a better person to play him. He was very much like the character in the movies. He noted that the girls' pen had Ariel on it and after talking to them about her he took them by the hand, told the other people in line he'd be right back and pranced (yes, I do mean pranced) the girls over to where people were meeting Ariel and Prince Eric and proceeded to teach the girls how to make whale noises at them and picked them up to play peek a boo with them! Later on when the girls met Ariel and Prince Eric they too made whale noises with the girls and spent a good bit of time with them.
The parades were a great highlight as well. I have been to Disney World 4 times and this was the first time I had ever seen the light parade. That was awesome! I think Brian and I enjoyed it as much as the girls did. We also found it very amusing that sitting in front of us was a woman with two daughters who were 6 and 3. The six year old's name was...Ava Grace. The three year old's name was...Ella (different middle name though!) Our Ella's we found out were only three weeks apart in age as well. We all got a good chuckle from that. But the reason I say the parades were the biggest highlight was the because of the presence of characters without the presence of screaming, crying and running. Ella did hide between Brian and I when the characters came close at any of the parades but Ava shook hands with them, danced in the street with them and even had a playful moment with Jafar...and yet she still won't set foot in Monkey Joe's!
I am very thankful that we had this opportunity as a family to have such a grand adventure. Brian's job may have him travelling a lot and this outage being a full year was not something we anticipated but it has also afforded us to do trips like this, our anniversary trip to NYC and our trip to NJ to see Brian earlier this year. This outage has also helped us appreciate our time together even more. We took for granted having each other around all the time so now we make sure that our time together is the best for all of us. That being said I can't wait for him to come home for good!
While at the zoo Brian and I changed our plans from going to Pigeon Forge and Dollywood to surprising the girls with a trip to Disney. They had mentioned it several times in the past few months so we figured it would be fun. It was an absolute BLAST!!! We had so much fun but at the same time so exhausting! The drive down wasn't horrible so that was a plus. Ella is notorious for being a horrible traveller but she did amazing. Ava has always been a great traveller and of course did a great job. We stayed at the Nickelodeon Resort and we were impressed. The reservations desk staff and the guest services staff were not the greatest and they did not get us into our room until a bit after the normal check-in time. However, what impressed us were the grounds, eating area, water park, room and general area staff. Anyone we encountered, even just walking by would stop and say hello and ask how our stay was and seemed to genuinely care. I think our favorite part was the water park though and the fact that the weather cooperated and we were able to even go swimming at 8:00 at night in the middle of October! The girls thought that was great and wanted to go swimming when we got home (it was barely 68 when we got back here!).
Disney World was the absolute greatest part of our trip. We decided to take the girls two days so we wouldn't have to rush to do things and meet characters. The girls met lots of characters, saw several parades, two shows and some fireworks. They loved the ferry ride over, although Ava was convinced we were riding one of Tinker Bell's friends over until I showed her the boat and explained the difference in spelling and such.
If you ask the girls they would probably say their favorite character they met was Prince Naveen or Rapunzel. If you asked Brian and I we'd have to say Prince Naveen and Peter Pan, although Prince Eric and Ariel were pretty great as well. What made these particular characters the best? Well first of all, Prince Naveen took several minutes with the girls, got down on their level and really talked to them. Then he took them by the hand and danced with them. He made them laugh repeatedly and they loved him! Peter Pan, Disney couldn't have found a better person to play him. He was very much like the character in the movies. He noted that the girls' pen had Ariel on it and after talking to them about her he took them by the hand, told the other people in line he'd be right back and pranced (yes, I do mean pranced) the girls over to where people were meeting Ariel and Prince Eric and proceeded to teach the girls how to make whale noises at them and picked them up to play peek a boo with them! Later on when the girls met Ariel and Prince Eric they too made whale noises with the girls and spent a good bit of time with them.
The parades were a great highlight as well. I have been to Disney World 4 times and this was the first time I had ever seen the light parade. That was awesome! I think Brian and I enjoyed it as much as the girls did. We also found it very amusing that sitting in front of us was a woman with two daughters who were 6 and 3. The six year old's name was...Ava Grace. The three year old's name was...Ella (different middle name though!) Our Ella's we found out were only three weeks apart in age as well. We all got a good chuckle from that. But the reason I say the parades were the biggest highlight was the because of the presence of characters without the presence of screaming, crying and running. Ella did hide between Brian and I when the characters came close at any of the parades but Ava shook hands with them, danced in the street with them and even had a playful moment with Jafar...and yet she still won't set foot in Monkey Joe's!
I am very thankful that we had this opportunity as a family to have such a grand adventure. Brian's job may have him travelling a lot and this outage being a full year was not something we anticipated but it has also afforded us to do trips like this, our anniversary trip to NYC and our trip to NJ to see Brian earlier this year. This outage has also helped us appreciate our time together even more. We took for granted having each other around all the time so now we make sure that our time together is the best for all of us. That being said I can't wait for him to come home for good!
Thursday, September 22, 2011
New adventures for our little family...
So at the risk of sounding absurd...I LOVE Ava's Pre-K teacher. She is just young enough (a year older than me) to be fun and energetic and seems to have an infinite amount of patience. Let me put it to you this way, when she mentioned that she had 18 children in her classroom and only 5 were girls she didn't even blink an eye. Ava is ecstatic to go to school EVERY DAY. She has never cried over me leaving her there nor has she ever said she just wanted to stay home. As a matter of fact, she got mad at me just last week for not letting her go to school! Her best friend is (no big surprise here) a boy. His name is Joseph and he is absolutely adorable and sweet. She has a friend that is a girl there too but she and Joseph are joined at the hip as her teacher says. They always seem to arrive right around the same time and leave around the same time. When Ava walks in Joseph stands near her and waits for her to do her morning tasks before they go play (put her stuff in her cubby, wash her hands, tell me goodbye). He always has a smile on his face and Ava talks about him constantly. Now if only I could ensure that Ella would get this same teacher next year! But of course I can't even guarantee that Ella will get into the Pre-K program at all next year.
Ella and I are trying to get into a new routine which is difficult. Neither of us are morning people whatsoever. So getting up at 6:30 am to get ready for the day and taking Ava to school is sheer torture for us. Ava is a morning person so it doesn't bother her. Ella and I come home after dropping Ava off and sit around for a while before we both lay down for a little nap, get up and eat lunch and do school work and by then it is time to go get Ava again. We have got to start something new, no more watching tv all morning long and vegging out on the couch. That will get old very soon, not sure which one of us is going to go crazy first! Ella is a more hands on child so I am going to have to come up with something aside from worksheets to keep her entertained for the next few months while Ava is at school.
On another note, Brian and I have decided that tv takes up entirely too much of our time together as a family and at the end of the year we are going to shut off our cable. I know I know, we will go through shock at first but we will survive. We are going to try it for a year to see how it goes. It has nothing to do with being able to afford it, not that that it is anybody's business, we can afford it. We will keep our internet as I will need it for my classes to get my teaching certification. Through that we will keep up with the shows we cannot do without (you know: Castle, Glee, Fringe), at least for now. Who knows, we might faze that out as well.
I am excited about all of our new ventures this coming year. My oldest is in school, my youngest will start school in a year and I am going back to school in January for my teaching certification. Brian should be back home full-time before we know it and we are more than ready for that! This year will definitely be memorable for all of us!
Ella and I are trying to get into a new routine which is difficult. Neither of us are morning people whatsoever. So getting up at 6:30 am to get ready for the day and taking Ava to school is sheer torture for us. Ava is a morning person so it doesn't bother her. Ella and I come home after dropping Ava off and sit around for a while before we both lay down for a little nap, get up and eat lunch and do school work and by then it is time to go get Ava again. We have got to start something new, no more watching tv all morning long and vegging out on the couch. That will get old very soon, not sure which one of us is going to go crazy first! Ella is a more hands on child so I am going to have to come up with something aside from worksheets to keep her entertained for the next few months while Ava is at school.
On another note, Brian and I have decided that tv takes up entirely too much of our time together as a family and at the end of the year we are going to shut off our cable. I know I know, we will go through shock at first but we will survive. We are going to try it for a year to see how it goes. It has nothing to do with being able to afford it, not that that it is anybody's business, we can afford it. We will keep our internet as I will need it for my classes to get my teaching certification. Through that we will keep up with the shows we cannot do without (you know: Castle, Glee, Fringe), at least for now. Who knows, we might faze that out as well.
I am excited about all of our new ventures this coming year. My oldest is in school, my youngest will start school in a year and I am going back to school in January for my teaching certification. Brian should be back home full-time before we know it and we are more than ready for that! This year will definitely be memorable for all of us!
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
Wake up,ninty miles an hour
Take the world's fastest shower
Coffee black,microwave it (I don't drink coffee, diet coke is more my style!)
I'm at my best caffeinated
Out the door,pick up the pace
I'm here,I'm there,I'm everyplace
That's how it goes
A day in my life
I'm on my toes
From morning to night
Livin' like this
Some might say it's
So exhaustin' frenzied,manic
Call me nuts but I like it frantic
I'm not bulit for relaxing
I get bored without some action
One speed is all I know
Seize the day,yeah that's my motto
Maybe someday,I'll slow down
Maybe someday,but for now
Chorus again
Things I haven't done
Keep me on the run
But time sure does fly
When you're having so much fun
Chorus again
Yep...this song is my anthem lol. Life with a three and four year old is very interesting, exhausting and just plain fun. Some of the things the two of them come up make me want to pull my hair out in frustration, laugh hysterically or both at the same time. Some say I am completely nuts for wanting to stay at home with my children, much less doing it alone for the past year. My husband may be gone from the house but not gone from our lives. We speak to him every day by computer right now, being in England he doesn't have a cellphone nor does he really have time to deal with one. But talking on skype is way better considering we actually get to see him! We are praying that he can get home soon, and I mean home home, here in Gastonia. I am glad he has had the experiences he has had in the past year but we miss him at home and he hates how much he has missed with the girls. But I'd also be lying if I said life will become calm once he comes home! With two sets of hands we are hardly ever home when Brian is home. We like to go to the park, amusement parks, zoos, etc. We like to live life to the fullest.
On another note I will say that my kids are my pride and joy. I love hearing people comment on their manners and their behaviors in restaurants. I have those kids that you see sitting politely in their chairs, order for themselves and remember to say please and thank you (yes, yes I am bragging). Of course there are times when people want to bite their tongue to keep from laughing when they are near my children. One said occassion was fairly recent actually. When Brian was in last month we took the girls to Panera Bread (they LOVE that place). They had been sitting pretty, eating quietly, saying please and thank you, etc. I took the girls to the bathroom and when I came back Brian said that the woman sitting diagonal to me commented on the girls manners. Not three seconds later this is what we hear out of Ella's mouth as loud as can be: Daddy, did you hear me fart! I wanted to crawl under the table! The woman on the other hand had to hide her face, I could see that she was trying very hard not to laugh and was failing miserably.
Ava is absolutely loving school. She tells me everyday all the things she has done, or hadn't done that day. She jumps on me every morning excited to get dressed and head to school and pushes me out the door each day when I drop her off. I know I won't get that with Ella, the teacher will probably have to peel her off of me. Ava loves school so much so that when she started running a fever yesterday and I told her she had to stay at home she got mad! At me! Apparently it was my fault she was sick and couldn't go to soccer practice or school! Shame on me! I also love that she enjoys folding laundry (and is surprisingly good at it) and putting dishes in the dishwasher, it comes in handy sometimes! I won't let her do either unsupervised all the time, I mean she is only 4!
I have to say though that my favorite moments in the past few weeks have been watching my children play soccer. Ava thoroughly enjoys it, Ella not so much. Ella talked about wanting to play soccer with her sister so I figured I'd sign her up. So far she has not enjoyed it as much as she thought she would. Their first game she actually plopped herself down in the middle of the field in the middle of the game and started plucking up grass! This should be an interesting season for her!
As Jon and Kate have said on their show: "It might be a crazy life, but it is our life." I don't care for either one of them but I do like that comment...and hey they didn't write it, a producer did lol. I wouldn't trade one crazy minute of my life. I am happily married to an awesome man who is thoroughly patience with me (believe me, I can be a challenge at times lol). And I have two children who exemplify such determination and tenacity to keep me on my toes for years to come. But I wouldn't trade them for anything, life would not be the same. Our next adventure...going to the zoo when Brian comes home for a visit! We haven't been in a long time and I can't wait to take them now that they are older!
Take the world's fastest shower
Coffee black,microwave it (I don't drink coffee, diet coke is more my style!)
I'm at my best caffeinated
Out the door,pick up the pace
I'm here,I'm there,I'm everyplace
That's how it goes
A day in my life
I'm on my toes
From morning to night
Livin' like this
Some might say it's
So exhaustin' frenzied,manic
Call me nuts but I like it frantic
I'm not bulit for relaxing
I get bored without some action
One speed is all I know
Seize the day,yeah that's my motto
Maybe someday,I'll slow down
Maybe someday,but for now
Chorus again
Things I haven't done
Keep me on the run
But time sure does fly
When you're having so much fun
Chorus again
Yep...this song is my anthem lol. Life with a three and four year old is very interesting, exhausting and just plain fun. Some of the things the two of them come up make me want to pull my hair out in frustration, laugh hysterically or both at the same time. Some say I am completely nuts for wanting to stay at home with my children, much less doing it alone for the past year. My husband may be gone from the house but not gone from our lives. We speak to him every day by computer right now, being in England he doesn't have a cellphone nor does he really have time to deal with one. But talking on skype is way better considering we actually get to see him! We are praying that he can get home soon, and I mean home home, here in Gastonia. I am glad he has had the experiences he has had in the past year but we miss him at home and he hates how much he has missed with the girls. But I'd also be lying if I said life will become calm once he comes home! With two sets of hands we are hardly ever home when Brian is home. We like to go to the park, amusement parks, zoos, etc. We like to live life to the fullest.
On another note I will say that my kids are my pride and joy. I love hearing people comment on their manners and their behaviors in restaurants. I have those kids that you see sitting politely in their chairs, order for themselves and remember to say please and thank you (yes, yes I am bragging). Of course there are times when people want to bite their tongue to keep from laughing when they are near my children. One said occassion was fairly recent actually. When Brian was in last month we took the girls to Panera Bread (they LOVE that place). They had been sitting pretty, eating quietly, saying please and thank you, etc. I took the girls to the bathroom and when I came back Brian said that the woman sitting diagonal to me commented on the girls manners. Not three seconds later this is what we hear out of Ella's mouth as loud as can be: Daddy, did you hear me fart! I wanted to crawl under the table! The woman on the other hand had to hide her face, I could see that she was trying very hard not to laugh and was failing miserably.
Ava is absolutely loving school. She tells me everyday all the things she has done, or hadn't done that day. She jumps on me every morning excited to get dressed and head to school and pushes me out the door each day when I drop her off. I know I won't get that with Ella, the teacher will probably have to peel her off of me. Ava loves school so much so that when she started running a fever yesterday and I told her she had to stay at home she got mad! At me! Apparently it was my fault she was sick and couldn't go to soccer practice or school! Shame on me! I also love that she enjoys folding laundry (and is surprisingly good at it) and putting dishes in the dishwasher, it comes in handy sometimes! I won't let her do either unsupervised all the time, I mean she is only 4!
I have to say though that my favorite moments in the past few weeks have been watching my children play soccer. Ava thoroughly enjoys it, Ella not so much. Ella talked about wanting to play soccer with her sister so I figured I'd sign her up. So far she has not enjoyed it as much as she thought she would. Their first game she actually plopped herself down in the middle of the field in the middle of the game and started plucking up grass! This should be an interesting season for her!
As Jon and Kate have said on their show: "It might be a crazy life, but it is our life." I don't care for either one of them but I do like that comment...and hey they didn't write it, a producer did lol. I wouldn't trade one crazy minute of my life. I am happily married to an awesome man who is thoroughly patience with me (believe me, I can be a challenge at times lol). And I have two children who exemplify such determination and tenacity to keep me on my toes for years to come. But I wouldn't trade them for anything, life would not be the same. Our next adventure...going to the zoo when Brian comes home for a visit! We haven't been in a long time and I can't wait to take them now that they are older!
Tuesday, May 24, 2011
Beach trip!!!!!
So, I'm going to guess by my blog title everyone is going to think this trip was a blast. Well guess what? You thought WRONG!!! I have decided that no one could pay me to make another solo beach trip with a nearly 3 and 4 year old! Not to mention their newest fear (of dogs, added on top of characters, bugs, snakes-which I agree with lol, water, power wheels-Ella only here, and I'm sure there are more but I can't think of what they are) was quite interesting.
First of all we started off the day on the wrong foot. Nobody wanted the breakfast they asked for so after two breakfasts and still barely any food in their stomachs I told them to eat what was in front of them or go hungry. I am not a short order cook so get over it. Lately my menu consists of two items: Take it or leave it. So after they finally ate enough to where I didn't think Ava would pass out on the soccer field we headed out to do a couple last minute errands before her game. Oh, did I mention I woke up with a sinus attack from hades? Yeah, figured I forgot to mention that part, so of course I was feeling AWESOME that day. Ava's game went ok, despite the (literally) 100% humidity.
We left her game and headed for the beach, stopped for lunch halfway and by then I was ready to pull my hair out. Ella was being whiny as usual-she has never been a model car rider. Ava was bored so I gave her her bookbag of toys (Leapster, ipod and headphones, coloring books and crayons, little toys from the dollar tree,etc.) and I handed Ella one praying she would play or go to sleep. Well she dumped everything on the floor and then fell asleep, great right?
Finally we get to the beach and at this point I am not the most chipper person on the planet. I get everything unloaded from the van (who knew you could need so much stuff for two days?) and into our hotel room. I proceed to empty the cooler so that I can dump the ice in the sink. I pick up the cooler after emptying it and after trying to maneuver it right I somehow grabbed the lid and pulled up, slamming it into my face and dumping the ice and water EVERYWHERE. Housekeeping came and cleaned it up for me (thanks!!!!) and the girls and I went to move the van from the loading zone and went down to the beach for a few minutes. This of course is where the dog fear comes in. Dogs can be on the beach from 5pm-10am ON A LEASH!!! That is a-okay with me, as long as you follow the rules. But no, there had to be two guys with a dog who didn't even have a collar on (mind you she was adorable and if not for their fear of dogs I might have talked these guys into letting me have her!). The first guy sees the girls are screaming (people in Scotland could hear that scream) and comes to get the dog and apologizes while he is berated by some woman for not having a leash or collar on the dog. After a while he lets the dog go, enter guy number two. The dog comes at the girls again, wanting to play. The girls scream so we proceed to leave that specific area after guy number two picks her up and walks off. Then he lets the dog down and then CHASES her right over to where my girls ARE. Ava clings to my thigh and Ella scales Ava like she is a rock climbing wall and ends up on my shoulders. Then he has the nerve to apologize as he laughs.
Remember my chipper mood I said was absent? Yeah, he got to see why redheads have the reputation we have. I let him know how irate I was and then told him I would have animal patrol out there. Sure enough I went inside to the front desk and had them call. At least after that we never saw another dog without a leash while we were there so that was all good.
Spending time on the beach was great but exhausting. Ella wanted to sit and dig in the sand while Ava was getting brave and running into the water. I didn't want to leave Ella alone so some stranger could easily pick her up (even though I'm sure she'd let everyone know she was being taken) and I didn't want to be too far away from Ava in case a wave knocked her down or something. So I made Ella come down closer to the water some of the time and made Ava go dig in the sand some of the time so I could have a break. But lordy if I suggested something other than the beach it was a meltdown from Ella (who used to hate sand by the way) or Ava getting mad at me and showing me her attitude (4 is such a great age...yes this is dripping with sarcasm).
Needless to say, I was ready for Monday to get here so we could be back on home turf! Except of course we hit the ground running as soon as we got here. We, I mean I unpacked, got laundry started, ran to the store, took Ava to her soccer game, ate dinner, gave the girls their baths and put them to bed. It is a wonder how I got into bed before midnight. Now you know why I am still exhausted after that trip lol and why I said it wasn't as great as the title states!
First of all we started off the day on the wrong foot. Nobody wanted the breakfast they asked for so after two breakfasts and still barely any food in their stomachs I told them to eat what was in front of them or go hungry. I am not a short order cook so get over it. Lately my menu consists of two items: Take it or leave it. So after they finally ate enough to where I didn't think Ava would pass out on the soccer field we headed out to do a couple last minute errands before her game. Oh, did I mention I woke up with a sinus attack from hades? Yeah, figured I forgot to mention that part, so of course I was feeling AWESOME that day. Ava's game went ok, despite the (literally) 100% humidity.
We left her game and headed for the beach, stopped for lunch halfway and by then I was ready to pull my hair out. Ella was being whiny as usual-she has never been a model car rider. Ava was bored so I gave her her bookbag of toys (Leapster, ipod and headphones, coloring books and crayons, little toys from the dollar tree,etc.) and I handed Ella one praying she would play or go to sleep. Well she dumped everything on the floor and then fell asleep, great right?
Finally we get to the beach and at this point I am not the most chipper person on the planet. I get everything unloaded from the van (who knew you could need so much stuff for two days?) and into our hotel room. I proceed to empty the cooler so that I can dump the ice in the sink. I pick up the cooler after emptying it and after trying to maneuver it right I somehow grabbed the lid and pulled up, slamming it into my face and dumping the ice and water EVERYWHERE. Housekeeping came and cleaned it up for me (thanks!!!!) and the girls and I went to move the van from the loading zone and went down to the beach for a few minutes. This of course is where the dog fear comes in. Dogs can be on the beach from 5pm-10am ON A LEASH!!! That is a-okay with me, as long as you follow the rules. But no, there had to be two guys with a dog who didn't even have a collar on (mind you she was adorable and if not for their fear of dogs I might have talked these guys into letting me have her!). The first guy sees the girls are screaming (people in Scotland could hear that scream) and comes to get the dog and apologizes while he is berated by some woman for not having a leash or collar on the dog. After a while he lets the dog go, enter guy number two. The dog comes at the girls again, wanting to play. The girls scream so we proceed to leave that specific area after guy number two picks her up and walks off. Then he lets the dog down and then CHASES her right over to where my girls ARE. Ava clings to my thigh and Ella scales Ava like she is a rock climbing wall and ends up on my shoulders. Then he has the nerve to apologize as he laughs.
Remember my chipper mood I said was absent? Yeah, he got to see why redheads have the reputation we have. I let him know how irate I was and then told him I would have animal patrol out there. Sure enough I went inside to the front desk and had them call. At least after that we never saw another dog without a leash while we were there so that was all good.
Spending time on the beach was great but exhausting. Ella wanted to sit and dig in the sand while Ava was getting brave and running into the water. I didn't want to leave Ella alone so some stranger could easily pick her up (even though I'm sure she'd let everyone know she was being taken) and I didn't want to be too far away from Ava in case a wave knocked her down or something. So I made Ella come down closer to the water some of the time and made Ava go dig in the sand some of the time so I could have a break. But lordy if I suggested something other than the beach it was a meltdown from Ella (who used to hate sand by the way) or Ava getting mad at me and showing me her attitude (4 is such a great age...yes this is dripping with sarcasm).
Needless to say, I was ready for Monday to get here so we could be back on home turf! Except of course we hit the ground running as soon as we got here. We, I mean I unpacked, got laundry started, ran to the store, took Ava to her soccer game, ate dinner, gave the girls their baths and put them to bed. It is a wonder how I got into bed before midnight. Now you know why I am still exhausted after that trip lol and why I said it wasn't as great as the title states!
Tuesday, April 26, 2011
Oh the joys of children!
So I took the girls to Dollywood for the very first time this past week and they had a blast. They absolutely loved Dolly Parton (even though she wasn't even there!). They continually called her (and still do now) Dolly Partment. I think at one point they even called her Jelly Apartment. But they really enjoyed the shows (we were there during the Festival of Nations) and playing in the water areas. I was a little disappointed that they took out the big playground area that was in the middle of the park but they had fun anyway. They made friends with a police officer while they were there as well. It was funny seeing a cop have a full on conversation with a 2 1/2 and a 3 1/2 year old! I was merely there to translate if it was necessary lol.
Dealing with their tantrums on the other hand is a whole different ballgame. I am so tired of telling Ella repeatedly to do something or stop doing something and she COMPLETELY ignores me. As soon as I scream at her, she does it. I hate screaming at her but it is literally the ONLY way to get her to listen. I go hoarse by the end of the day with as many times as I have to do this! I pray that I am in the same boat with many other parents and that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Ava did not go through this phase so I don't know how it shapes up throughout the year! Ava's new thing is to tell me I hurt her feelings if I don't let her do something that she really wants to do or something like that. Ava's biggest thing that aggravates me is her mouth. She is extremely cocky and sarcastic. I swear she is nearly four going on fourteen. Lord help me when she IS fourteen!
The other day we did some outside Easter pictures and I was way more pleased with these as compared to the ones I did in their room a few weeks ago. Ava was a ham as usual while Ella got a little bored after a while. Then when we went out to a barbeque barn that evening we found several spots that were perfect for pictures, I just wish the kids had been just as enthusiastic about it! Glad they were all good sports about it and at least sat still!
Overall, we are doing a little better with Brian being gone. It still bites that he isn't here all the time but it does make our time together that one weekend a month that much better. We try to spend all the time we can together while also seeing other people I know he wants to see. Next week I am flying up for our 5th anniversary, we are going to a Phillies/Braves game Friday night in Philly and then on to NYC early Saturday morning where we will hang out there all day Saturday, go to a nice restaurant that night and stay at the Waldorf Astoria! I am so excited. We haven't had a weekend just the two of us in almost two years (that I can remember anyway).
Dealing with their tantrums on the other hand is a whole different ballgame. I am so tired of telling Ella repeatedly to do something or stop doing something and she COMPLETELY ignores me. As soon as I scream at her, she does it. I hate screaming at her but it is literally the ONLY way to get her to listen. I go hoarse by the end of the day with as many times as I have to do this! I pray that I am in the same boat with many other parents and that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Ava did not go through this phase so I don't know how it shapes up throughout the year! Ava's new thing is to tell me I hurt her feelings if I don't let her do something that she really wants to do or something like that. Ava's biggest thing that aggravates me is her mouth. She is extremely cocky and sarcastic. I swear she is nearly four going on fourteen. Lord help me when she IS fourteen!
The other day we did some outside Easter pictures and I was way more pleased with these as compared to the ones I did in their room a few weeks ago. Ava was a ham as usual while Ella got a little bored after a while. Then when we went out to a barbeque barn that evening we found several spots that were perfect for pictures, I just wish the kids had been just as enthusiastic about it! Glad they were all good sports about it and at least sat still!
Overall, we are doing a little better with Brian being gone. It still bites that he isn't here all the time but it does make our time together that one weekend a month that much better. We try to spend all the time we can together while also seeing other people I know he wants to see. Next week I am flying up for our 5th anniversary, we are going to a Phillies/Braves game Friday night in Philly and then on to NYC early Saturday morning where we will hang out there all day Saturday, go to a nice restaurant that night and stay at the Waldorf Astoria! I am so excited. We haven't had a weekend just the two of us in almost two years (that I can remember anyway).
Ava and Ella in a rare sweet moment lol.
My Ella Bella Bear- 2 1/2
My Gracie Lou- 3 1/2
I can't believe she will be 4 in a month!
Such beautiful little ladies!
Two months from now she will be 3!
LOVE LOVE LOVE this picture!
Such little hams!
Christian was cracking me up. He would not give us a real smile for anything!
Wednesday, March 30, 2011
Ready for a vacation...
So the girls and I have been doing the whole living without Brian for the past 3 months and only seeing him once a month. We are actually working on month 7 of him not being home. The first four months we saw him every weekend. We thought that was bad until he was gone for a month at a time! Now, I'd take every weekend any day! But we know it is for the best. The girls are starting to have a hard time with it now and are really acting out which of course is driving me completely bonkers. But sometimes you have to make sacrifices to better your life and so far this has been our biggest sacrifice thus far.
The three Riddle women are headed to Savannah to spend some time with Breanna (my sister from another mother) and her awesome family and then watch out West Palm Beach, we are invading for a week! I am so excited. We have not seen family down there since Ava was 3 months old and she will be 4 in less than two months! We are going to make this the best trip. I need to just let everything else go and focus on making this a fun and exciting time for all of us. We are going to the beach, the Palm Beach Zoo, the spraygrounds, visiting family and maybe a good shopping trip (the girls love to shop!).
I do have to say though that the girls have kept me very entertained on our good days. The other day we picked Brian up from the airport and he showed Ava one of his new boots and said "This is Daddy's new boot." She piped up from the back without missing a beat and said "Did you get the other one too?" Got to love that girl! She has my sarcasm (lordy we will need some serious prayers in ten years lol). Ella told me yesterday that she is going to marry Trenton (who is Breanna's oldest son and quite the cutie but he is 2 1/2 years older!). Ava then added that she was going to marry Christian (her Uncle Bubba and Aunt Nikki's cutie patootie who is 5 weeks younger than Ava). This is the same kid who at Christmas put his arm around Ava and told us they were going to the mountains to make some magic...I really hope he meant hocus pocus abracadabra or we are going to have some serious issues in a few years!
On another note, Ava is playing soccer this Spring and she has been so happy with it. Her first game is on the 9th and she can't wait. They are both going to do swimming lessons this Summer. I can't swim worth a flip (no pun intended) and have issues in water. So I want them to be more comfortable in it than I ever was. And then both will play soccer in the Fall. AND my baby (Ava) starts Pre-K in the Fall. I am so sad that she has gotten big enough to go to school but glad she is going to have this time away from me and time to interact with other children. I'm praying there are a lot of girls in her class as 99% of her friends right now are boys!
I will try to keep this up a bit more, things have been so hectic and I just forgot all about this!
The three Riddle women are headed to Savannah to spend some time with Breanna (my sister from another mother) and her awesome family and then watch out West Palm Beach, we are invading for a week! I am so excited. We have not seen family down there since Ava was 3 months old and she will be 4 in less than two months! We are going to make this the best trip. I need to just let everything else go and focus on making this a fun and exciting time for all of us. We are going to the beach, the Palm Beach Zoo, the spraygrounds, visiting family and maybe a good shopping trip (the girls love to shop!).
I do have to say though that the girls have kept me very entertained on our good days. The other day we picked Brian up from the airport and he showed Ava one of his new boots and said "This is Daddy's new boot." She piped up from the back without missing a beat and said "Did you get the other one too?" Got to love that girl! She has my sarcasm (lordy we will need some serious prayers in ten years lol). Ella told me yesterday that she is going to marry Trenton (who is Breanna's oldest son and quite the cutie but he is 2 1/2 years older!). Ava then added that she was going to marry Christian (her Uncle Bubba and Aunt Nikki's cutie patootie who is 5 weeks younger than Ava). This is the same kid who at Christmas put his arm around Ava and told us they were going to the mountains to make some magic...I really hope he meant hocus pocus abracadabra or we are going to have some serious issues in a few years!
On another note, Ava is playing soccer this Spring and she has been so happy with it. Her first game is on the 9th and she can't wait. They are both going to do swimming lessons this Summer. I can't swim worth a flip (no pun intended) and have issues in water. So I want them to be more comfortable in it than I ever was. And then both will play soccer in the Fall. AND my baby (Ava) starts Pre-K in the Fall. I am so sad that she has gotten big enough to go to school but glad she is going to have this time away from me and time to interact with other children. I'm praying there are a lot of girls in her class as 99% of her friends right now are boys!
I will try to keep this up a bit more, things have been so hectic and I just forgot all about this!
Monday, December 20, 2010
On your mark, get set, go!
It's that time of year again! I love Christmas time but goodness living so far from family takes its toll! I can't wait to see everyone but sometimes I wish everyone lived closer together. We will start our marathon week on Wednesday with picking up Brian and meeting his co-worker who got the girls Christmas presents. Then Thursday we are doing Christmas with our friend Stephany (who is dating my brother-in-law) and Brian is going to lunch with his co-workers from Charlotte. Friday we are going to Winston-Salem for our annual Christmas Eve party, coming home and going to another Christmas Eve party we go to every year! Saturday we are going to open up presents at home, go to the in-laws and do Christmas there and then drive to Franklin to do Christmas with my family. And last but not least we will get together on Sunday or Monday with Scott and the boys to exchange gifts between the kids! Phew! It exhausts me just thinking about it!
On a lighter note, I started off the season on the right foot. I pass both of my classes this semester with flying colors which makes me happy. And Brian will be home for 11 WHOLE DAYS!!!! I originally thinking it was 12 but then I remembered he is leaving super early on the 2nd to move up to NJ :(. I'm trying not to think about that right now though!
I am looking forward to Christmas day this year since the girls are getting bigger and understand it a bit more. Ava lets me know who's birthday it is when we ask, even though I swear it sounds like she is saying Cheezits instead of Jesus! But she is also really into Santa Claus, we didn't really push it upon her but she LOVES him. Last year we saw him once a week, this year she's gone at least 5 times! Ella on the other hand HATES him. She likes him long enough to get a candy cane from him and tell him he is doing a great job but that is it. But they are so excited about presents lol, I mean what kid isn't?
I hope everyone else has a great Christmas as well this year!
On a lighter note, I started off the season on the right foot. I pass both of my classes this semester with flying colors which makes me happy. And Brian will be home for 11 WHOLE DAYS!!!! I originally thinking it was 12 but then I remembered he is leaving super early on the 2nd to move up to NJ :(. I'm trying not to think about that right now though!
I am looking forward to Christmas day this year since the girls are getting bigger and understand it a bit more. Ava lets me know who's birthday it is when we ask, even though I swear it sounds like she is saying Cheezits instead of Jesus! But she is also really into Santa Claus, we didn't really push it upon her but she LOVES him. Last year we saw him once a week, this year she's gone at least 5 times! Ella on the other hand HATES him. She likes him long enough to get a candy cane from him and tell him he is doing a great job but that is it. But they are so excited about presents lol, I mean what kid isn't?
I hope everyone else has a great Christmas as well this year!
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Life at it's finest...
I love that so many friends of ours have told me that if I ever need any help while Brian is gone to let them know. I am really weird about who I leave my kids with as it is but when I want a few hours or even one hour on my own I feel like I am pawning them off on people to get away. I feel horrible! So most of the time if it is something I need to do outside of the house I just take the girls with me or if it can be done at home I just wait until naptime or bedtime!
On a lighter note I'm glad that I am the one to dress Ella to actually go out! Right now she is standing here in her dress with a long sleeve shirt, her jacket on and shoes with no socks or tights. Not to mention her hair looks like she stuck her finger in a light socket since she insists her hair must be taken down while she sleeps! And Ava is running around with her dress on and her shoes on (also minus socks or tights) on the wrong feet!
I'm so excited that a week from today Brian will be home for 12 days! I can't wait to spend that much time with him. I remember when we used to take time together for granted, but not anymore, we won't have that much time together after those 12 days which is depressing, but we will make it through! We chose for him to do this outage so that we could eliminate some of our debt and it will be a really good thing for us. I keep reminding myself of that when I get depressed that he will be gone so long!
On a lighter note I'm glad that I am the one to dress Ella to actually go out! Right now she is standing here in her dress with a long sleeve shirt, her jacket on and shoes with no socks or tights. Not to mention her hair looks like she stuck her finger in a light socket since she insists her hair must be taken down while she sleeps! And Ava is running around with her dress on and her shoes on (also minus socks or tights) on the wrong feet!
I'm so excited that a week from today Brian will be home for 12 days! I can't wait to spend that much time with him. I remember when we used to take time together for granted, but not anymore, we won't have that much time together after those 12 days which is depressing, but we will make it through! We chose for him to do this outage so that we could eliminate some of our debt and it will be a really good thing for us. I keep reminding myself of that when I get depressed that he will be gone so long!
Monday, December 6, 2010
My girls
I have decided that my girls are the best free entertainment I can possibly get. Today we were out at the store (as usual) when they both said they wanted to watch Giddy Up Pooh when we got home. Like some of you reading this I was wondering, what in the world is Giddy Up Pooh? I had never heard of it. Ella pulled out the Piglet Movie and they began to watch it. The theme song comes on and says "Winnie the Pooh Winnie the Pooh..." to which my daughters were singing loudly to the same tune "Giddy up Pooh Giddy up Pooh..." I laughed so hard once I realized what Giddy Up Pooh was!
They have both been asking more about Christmas this year and I have about decided to hire a babysitter any time I need to go out. Ava asks for EVERYTHING for Christmas this year. I finally flat out told her that I was done shopping for her (which was not a lie). So now she has moved on to asking for it for her birthday. I can't say I don't admire her ambition. She will remember 98% of what she asked for too, I on the other hand will not.
I want to thank Zhu Zhu pets and my younger cousin (I'd say little but he's almost my height now!) Matthew for helping me come to the realization that my children do NOT need a hamster for a pet. First of all Ella of course is terrified of the real thing. She kept telling Matthew to put his back up when he took it out yesterday. But the Zhu Zhu pets are awesome. I have nothing to clean up or remember to feed! And if they go under the couch it isn't nearly as hard to catch them! But that is just the thing. I can just picture Ava deciding a real hamster needs to come out to play and we spend the rest of the day chasing it around the apartment to get it back in the cage!
I asked Ava the other day if she liked math and she looked at me and grinned. Then as she nodded she said "I like math! And it's like Matthew! It sounds the same!" She is so smart. And a smart aleck, but she does come by it honestly, my baby book states I was (and still am) the same way at her age! We were discussing French one day and I asked them if they could say French. Ava answered with "French...French...French Fries!" then I asked if they could say "bay" which is the pronunciation of b in French. Ava then answered with "Bay...Bay...Bacon!" Lordy, I swear all she thinks about is food (not that anyone could tell with as small as she is!).
Ella's new thing is to tell me to be nice to her when I tell her to stop doing something. I told her earlier today at the store that I was running out of patience with her and she told me "Get some more mommy. Do they have some here?" By the way we were in Hobby Lobby and no, they do not carry patience lol. I did get a good laugh out of that and couldn't stay mad at her.
But I do have to say that I love when they come in my room in the morning (regardless of the fact that the sun has just risen most days) and kiss me and rub my face until I open my eyes and say "I love you Mommy. You make me berry happy!" It makes the start of the day (too early most days) much better.
They have both been asking more about Christmas this year and I have about decided to hire a babysitter any time I need to go out. Ava asks for EVERYTHING for Christmas this year. I finally flat out told her that I was done shopping for her (which was not a lie). So now she has moved on to asking for it for her birthday. I can't say I don't admire her ambition. She will remember 98% of what she asked for too, I on the other hand will not.
I want to thank Zhu Zhu pets and my younger cousin (I'd say little but he's almost my height now!) Matthew for helping me come to the realization that my children do NOT need a hamster for a pet. First of all Ella of course is terrified of the real thing. She kept telling Matthew to put his back up when he took it out yesterday. But the Zhu Zhu pets are awesome. I have nothing to clean up or remember to feed! And if they go under the couch it isn't nearly as hard to catch them! But that is just the thing. I can just picture Ava deciding a real hamster needs to come out to play and we spend the rest of the day chasing it around the apartment to get it back in the cage!
I asked Ava the other day if she liked math and she looked at me and grinned. Then as she nodded she said "I like math! And it's like Matthew! It sounds the same!" She is so smart. And a smart aleck, but she does come by it honestly, my baby book states I was (and still am) the same way at her age! We were discussing French one day and I asked them if they could say French. Ava answered with "French...French...French Fries!" then I asked if they could say "bay" which is the pronunciation of b in French. Ava then answered with "Bay...Bay...Bacon!" Lordy, I swear all she thinks about is food (not that anyone could tell with as small as she is!).
Ella's new thing is to tell me to be nice to her when I tell her to stop doing something. I told her earlier today at the store that I was running out of patience with her and she told me "Get some more mommy. Do they have some here?" By the way we were in Hobby Lobby and no, they do not carry patience lol. I did get a good laugh out of that and couldn't stay mad at her.
But I do have to say that I love when they come in my room in the morning (regardless of the fact that the sun has just risen most days) and kiss me and rub my face until I open my eyes and say "I love you Mommy. You make me berry happy!" It makes the start of the day (too early most days) much better.
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